So true, boys will lie about the fact that they love you so they can get all the way to home base, but girls will lie to themself about what they are going to mean to a boy once they have sex. it shouldnt be that way.. it shouldnt even be sex, it should be making love, it should be passionate and loving. It about two people melting into eachother, two people who understnad eachother, and respect eachother. its being able to hold one person that you love and care about, someone that you cherish deeply. Someone that you can look into their eyes and see that they complete you. Someone who you can completely embarass yourself infrom of and not feel like a complete idiot. Someone that you and hold their hand and not want to let go. someone that you just cant wait to put your hands all over them. you should be able to lay with that person and talk to that person and laugh with that person and cry with that person. So why lie to your self girl? you deserve to be respected, you desrve to be held tight and be told that your beautiful and wanted, and you want someone to MEAN IT!!! and Guys.. dont lie to us girls.. dont say you love us if you dont.. Just go find some skank. And i know its not just girls who get hurt, i know some guys are really honestly sinsere and want to make love, and not have sex. I love guys like that. Be sensitive, boys, and you'll get somewhere.