So im reading this new book, and i love to so much. "Boys will put you on a pedestal (So they can look up your skirt) - A dad's advice for daughters" if you dont have it get on your knees and literally beg your mom, or your dad, or your sister or brother, ask you dog for i care, every girl MUST read this book. haha. Okay.. so this is my follow up on chapter 2, cuz chapter one was just about getting rid of old stuff, and how its all just weighing you down. but this chapter is good. Fate. This guy is so into Existentialism*. Fate really pisses this guys off. okay. so it starts. Romance. Romance is so important in someones like.. its alomost a must in relationships. and then there is fate.fate is lazy, fate is when someone just says "everything well work out, its fate" or "he or she will come back, its fate. we are meant to be toghter" when romance is when you work on something, build onto it, you keeps somones interest... romance can not be delt with laziness. and then there is infactuation. infactuation happens when you see someone acroos a room, and you feel a conection.. a physical attraction. but infactuation can lead to love. but you cant love somone by seening them across the room. once you get to know them they probally have this annoying laugh, breath loud, or do something that is toatlly anoying. but sometimes infactuation does work, after you get to know them, when you know they are right for you, right in the since that you share enough with their values and interests to acatully have a commitment. But its the kind of love that comes just out of the blue, and can leave just as quickly. and leaves yu asking "what the hell was i thinking?" and as for soul mate, there is such thing, but they aren't born, they are made. the status of soul mate is a destination, not a starting point. life is funn of possibilities, and thats why life is so exciting and unpredictable, you get to choe witch path you walk down, dont just stand therer thinking about what path you want to take and and blame it on fate. fate is like leaving your bat on your shoulder and never swinging at a single pitch.. its giving up before you even tried. dont believe in fate, or at least not all the time.. belive in yourself. but its always nice to believe in fate, belive it unseen forces and can draw you to another person.. Fairy Tale Ending.

*A philosophy that emphasizes the uniqueness and isolation of the individual experience in a hostile or indifferent universe, regards human existence as unexplainable, and stresses freedom of choice and responsibility for the consequences of one's acts. (in other words, you chose your own path, fate has nothing to do with it)